I'm sure you are suffering, no one doubts that. Its just the lack of empathy for other people we deem to be criminal, and so will a jury of your peers. If you expect me to show my hand or explain to you my actions it is only evidence of a grandiose belief.

A narcissist suffering from a victimization complex often perceives themselves as constantly being wronged or unfairly treated by others, despite evidence to the contrary.

Their focus on their own perceived victimization can make it difficult for narcissists to empathize with the experiences and feelings of others. They may dismiss or minimize the suffering of others, believing their own pain to be more significant.

Changing this behavior in a narcissist can be challenging, as it often requires a significant shift in their worldview and self-perception. However, it is not impossible.

Overall, overcoming a victimization complex requires commitment, self-awareness, and a willingness to change. With dedication and support, narcissists can work towards developing healthier ways of relating to themselves and others.

I'm sure the Greenhaus family would like nothing more than for you to step up, admit your wrongs and change for the better.